emotionally impacted.

While the topic on everyone's mind recently has been the Richter 9 earthquake and the resulting tsunami(s), it has been hard for the average man in the street to relate to the plight of the victims. Though Singapore is a nation in relatively close proximity to Sumatra, we are blessed to have been sheltered by the landmasses of Sumatra and Peninsular Malaysia, as well as the relatively narrow straits that do not allow walls of water to build up. Thus, even though we are physically closer to the quake epicenter, we are completely unscathed. And though there are disaster relief funds, donation drives and medical mobilizations, to the average Joe life simply goes on as usual. The reality of the catastrophe has not yet hit home to many.

Five minutes ago, I opened an email from an ex-classmate that went like this.

Just a quick note: a close family friend is one of the 18 stil missing in Phuket. It's my mother's best friend and I'm rather close to her as well. Prayers appreciated.

Suddenly, the disaster was brought a step closer to home. Someone out there, someone I know, is grieving and worrying for someone involved in the catastrophe. Her life has been changed in a tangible way, and through her, my illusion of stableness and above-it-all-ness has been shattered.

What does it all mean to me? It casts a face upon the disaster, brings the human side of the suffering into clearer view, and makes me feel all the more fortunate that I am not the one writing that email. But I am better able to empathize. SMI, I'll be praying for your friend.

On a side note, there are updates on the tsunami relief efforts here at the tsunami help blog and plenty others (read Mr Miyagi for the list.) Friendster is also chipping in to help if you are a friendster user. More direct, though, call 1900-911-1110 to donate $ or post a cheque made out to "Singapore Red Cross Society" to the following address:

Singapore Red Cross
Red Cross House
15 Penang Lane S238486

Indicate behind:
"Tidal Waves Asia"
and include your name, address and telephone number if you want a receipt.