Thursday, January 24, 2008

Self Love

自己害自己,好像是一件我时常爱做的事。

为了不要让其他人累,穷,或不方便,我往往给自己添了麻烦,让自己累坏,做穷光蛋,或惹上更多麻烦。

人家叫我做的事,我一定做。
我叫人家做的事,其他人未必会做; 拖延阿拖延,直到我自己做算了,还会更快。

可是我发觉到,我的全部已经付出与他人,一点也没得剩给自己。

难道真的不会有其他人为我着想吗?

Don't assume I will always be patient.
Don't assume I will always settle everything for you.
Don't assume I will always be the one to sacrifice my time and finances to ensure things go well.

But then again, if not me doing it, then who?

As usual, I would rather I deprived myself than know that anyone else is shortchanged for my sake.

But it hurts when others don't do the same for me.

Conclusion: I should love myself first. Because I can't expect that love to come from others.

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